Wednesday, January 25, 2017

Memorial Service Speech Recordings

As mentioned, the memorial service for Jerry Shaffer was held on Sat Dec 3, 2016 in Storrs, CT. The turnout was incredible and heartwarming - with more than 100 people from the different stages of his life in attendance. This included friends and family, many philosophy colleagues, therapy/counseling colleagues and clients, fellow bridge players, neighbors and others who knew Jerry from his >45 years living in Mansfield, CT.

Many people spoke at the memorial from all these different life stages, which was amazing. We only had the memorial location reserved for 4 hours, so our time was limited and it became apparent that we could have gone longer, to accommodate everyone who wanted to share their testimonial. We are very sorry if anyone wanted to speak but did not get a chance.

While we did not make a formal effort to record the speeches made, many were recorded by attendees on cell phones. As such, the quality of the recordings are definitely not professional, or ideal, but they are mostly good enough to hear clearly what was said, which is of course the most important thing. If anyone has any recordings of speeches we are missing here, please reach out to dave.shaffer@yahoo.com.

Thanks to all who spoke and if anyone wants to have their speech removed from this archive, just let us know.

Speech Recordings (click link to view each recording in mp4)

Dave Shaffer Intro (son)
Diana Shaffer (no video - let us know if anyone recorded this...)
Eliana (second wife)
Larry (brother)
Tali (step-daughter)
Berko Family Comments (step-son-in-law's family)
Don Baxter (philosophy)
Don Connery (brother-in-law from first wife, Olivia)
Greg Shaffer (nephew)
Wendy (counseling)
Jenn and Joe (counseling)
Joel Marks (philosophy)
John Troyer (philosophy)
Mitch Silver (philosophy)
Scott Lehmann (philosophy)
Shelley Burrell (philosophy)
Tim Elder (philosophy)
Dave Shaffer Wrapup


On a side note, Joel Marks also shared some videos of Jerry speaking with him on various topics in Nov 2009:

Video of Jerry reading Descartes: https://youtu.be/VRYCzLRlYKU
Jerry and Joel Marks discuss dualism and veganism: https://youtu.be/mlpAcPdPBhc​

Monday, January 23, 2017


This site is dedicated to the memory of Jerome A. Shaffer, beloved Father, Grandfather, Brother, Husband, Philosopher, Therapist, Bridge Player, SCUBA Diver, World Traveler, New York Times Fanatic and Lover of Cookies.

The initial post will be the videos we have recorded of speeches/testimonials from Jerry's memorial service on Dec 3, 2016 in Storrs, CT. Comments sharing memories, links to relevant materials and other celebrations of Jerry's life are welcomed!

Dave Shaffer (Jerry's son)
dave.shaffer@yahoo.com